Self help doesn't work. It's a waste of time.
My life feels like a routine. Just the same thing over and over again. It's not all bad, but it feels as if I am trapped in some kind of purgatory.
My career, my social life, my health, they are all in need of improvement.
I am getting sick and tired of all the positive thinking crap out there to try to "inspire" change. I think that only works if your life is already pretty good and you need a minor boost. If you are in a rut with deeply ingrained problems or habits, "thinking positive" probably won't work.
Me being stuck at a job I don't like is not going to solve itself by listening to self-help positive thinking. Yes, I can make life better by being focused on the task at hand and not dwell on the "story" of why it sucks, but that only changes so much. It can make a terrible job more tolerable, but it still isn't fulfilling. It's the same with my social life and health.
This blog is for people who have also felt jilted by the ineffectiveness of the self help industry or the new age spiritual industry or formal education or any institution really that claims to be bettering people when they aren't doing it well. I also think there is self-help fraud going on where you basically have someone who can talk or write well and sucker people into doing things that are either ineffective or won't give them any real fulfillment.
It's also for me to highlight the changes I will make in my own life to break out of the constant cycle of doing the same things over and over again. It's also about trying to figure out a solution. It's one thing to know that I'm doing something wrong, it's quite another to replace it with something productive.
